not given to drunkenness,1 not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome,2 not a lover of money.34
He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect.45
(If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?)56
He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited6 and fall under the same judgment7 as the devil.
He must also have a good reputation with outsiders,8 so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil's trap.98
Deacons,10 likewise, are to be men worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine,11 and not pursuing dishonest gain.
They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience.1210
They must first be tested;13 and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons.
In the same way, their wivesa are to be women worthy of respect, not malicious talkers14 but temperate15 and trustworthy in everything.
A deacon must be the husband of but one wife16 and must manage his children and his household well.1713
Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus.