2 Samuel 13:12-39 NIV

12 "Don't, my brother!" she said to him. "Don't force me. Such a thing should not be done in Israel!1 Don't do this wicked thing.2

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13 What about me?3 Where could I get rid of my disgrace? And what about you? You would be like one of the wicked fools in Israel. Please speak to the king; he will not keep me from being married to you."

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14 But he refused to listen to her, and since he was stronger than she, he raped her.4

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15 Then Amnon hated her with intense hatred. In fact, he hated her more than he had loved her. Amnon said to her, "Get up and get out!"
16 "No!" she said to him. "Sending me away would be a greater wrong than what you have already done to me." But he refused to listen to her.
17 He called his personal servant and said, "Get this woman out of here and bolt the door after her."
18 So his servant put her out and bolted the door after her. She was wearing a richly ornamenteda robe,5 for this was the kind of garment the virgin daughters of the king wore.

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    • a 13:18 - The meaning of the Hebrew for this phrase is uncertain.
      19 Tamar put ashes6 on her head and tore the ornamentedb robe she was wearing. She put her hand on her head and went away, weeping aloud as she went.

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        • b 13:19 - The meaning of the Hebrew for this word is uncertain.
          20 Her brother Absalom said to her, "Has that Amnon, your brother, been with you? Be quiet now, my sister; he is your brother. Don't take this thing to heart." And Tamar lived in her brother Absalom's house, a desolate woman.
          21 When King David heard all this, he was furious.7

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          22 Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad;8 he hated9 Amnon because he had disgraced his sister Tamar.

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          Absalom Kills Amnon

          23 Two years later, when Absalom's sheepshearers10 were at Baal Hazor near the border of Ephraim, he invited all the king's sons to come there.

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          24 Absalom went to the king and said, "Your servant has had shearers come. Will the king and his officials please join me?"
          25 "No, my son," the king replied. "All of us should not go; we would only be a burden to you." Although Absalom urged him, he still refused to go, but gave him his blessing.
          26 Then Absalom said, "If not, please let my brother Amnon come with us." The king asked him, "Why should he go with you?"
          27 But Absalom urged him, so he sent with him Amnon and the rest of the king's sons.
          28 Absalom11 ordered his men, "Listen! When Amnon is in high12 spirits from drinking wine and I say to you, 'Strike Amnon down,' then kill him. Don't be afraid. Have not I given you this order? Be strong and brave.13"

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          29 So Absalom's men did to Amnon what Absalom had ordered. Then all the king's sons got up, mounted their mules and fled.
          30 While they were on their way, the report came to David: "Absalom has struck down all the king's sons; not one of them is left."
          31 The king stood up, tore14 his clothes and lay down on the ground; and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.

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          32 But Jonadab son of Shimeah, David's brother, said, "My lord should not think that they killed all the princes; only Amnon is dead. This has been Absalom's expressed intention ever since the day Amnon raped his sister Tamar.
          33 My lord the king should not be concerned about the report that all the king's sons are dead. Only Amnon is dead."
          34 Meanwhile, Absalom had fled. Now the man standing watch looked up and saw many people on the road west of him, coming down the side of the hill. The watchman went and told the king, "I see men in the direction of Horonaim, on the side of the hill."c

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            • c 13:34 - Septuagint; Hebrew does not have this sentence.
              35 Jonadab said to the king, "See, the king's sons are here; it has happened just as your servant said."
              36 As he finished speaking, the king's sons came in, wailing loudly. The king, too, and all his servants wept very bitterly.
              37 Absalom fled and went to Talmai15 son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur. But King David mourned for his son every day.

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              38 After Absalom fled and went to Geshur, he stayed there three years.
              39 And the spirit of the kingd longed to go to Absalom,16 for he was consoled17 concerning Amnon's death.

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                • d 13:39 - Dead Sea Scrolls and some Septuagint manuscripts; Masoretic Text "But [the spirit of] David the king"