I don't have a command from the Lord about people who have never been married,a but I'll give you my opinion as someone you can trust because of the Lord's mercy.
So I think this advice is good because of the present crisis: Stay as you are.
If you are married, don't get a divorce. If you are divorced, don't try to find a spouse.
But if you do marry, you haven't sinned; and if someone who hasn't been married gets married, they haven't sinned. But married people will have a hard time, and I'm trying to spare you that.
This is what I'm saying, brothers and sisters: The time has drawn short. From now on, those who have wives should be like people who don't have them.
Those who are sad should be like people who aren't crying. Those who are happy should be like people who aren't happy. Those who buy something should be like people who don't have possessions.
Those who use the world should be like people who aren't preoccupied with it, because this world in its present form is passing away.
I want you to be free from concerns. A man who isn't married is concerned about the Lord's concerns—how he can please the Lord.
But a married man is concerned about the world's concerns—how he can please his wife.
His attention is divided. A woman who isn't married or who is a virgin is concerned about the Lord's concerns so that she can be dedicated to God in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the world's concerns—how she can please her husband.
I'm saying this for your own advantage. It's not to restrict you but rather to promote effective and consistent service to the Lord without distraction.
If someone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward an unmarried woman whom he knows, and if he has strong feelings and it seems like the right thing to do, he should do what he wants—he's not sinning—they should get married.
But if a man stands firm in his decision, and doesn't feel the pressure, but has his own will under control, he does right if he decides in his own heart not to marry the woman.
Therefore, the one who marries the unmarried woman does right, and the one who doesn't get married will do even better.
A woman is obligated to stay in her marriage as long as her husband is alive. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry whomever she wants, only it should be a believer in the Lord.
But in my opinion, she will be happier if she stays the way she is. And I think that I have God's Spirit too.