It was reported to Joab, "The king is weeping. He's mourning over Absalom."
References for 2 Samuel 19:1
That day's victory was turned into mourning for all the troops because on that day the troops heard, "The king is grieving over his son."
So they returned to the city quietly that day like people come in when they are humiliated after fleeing in battle.
But the king hid his face and cried out at the top of his voice, "My son Absalom! Absalom, my son, my son!"
Then Joab went into the house to the king and said, "Today you have shamed all your soldiers-those who rescued your life and the lives of your sons and daughters, your wives, and your concubines.
You love your enemies and hate those who love you! Today you have made it clear that the commanders and soldiers mean nothing to you. In fact, today I know that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead, it would be fine with you!
References for 2 Samuel 19:6
"Now get up! Go out and encourage your soldiers, for I swear by the Lord that if you don't go out, not a man will remain with you tonight. This will be worse for you than all the trouble that has come to you from your youth until now!"
References for 2 Samuel 19:7
So the king got up and sat in the gate, and all the people were told: "Look, the king is sitting in the gate." Then they all came into the king's presence. Meanwhile, each Israelite had fled to his tent.
All the people among all the tribes of Israel were arguing: "The king delivered us from the grasp of our enemies, and he rescued us from the grasp of the Philistines, but now he has fled from the land because of Absalom.
But Absalom, the man we anointed over us, has died in battle. So why do you say nothing about restoring the king?"
King David sent word to the priests, Zadok and Abiathar: "Say to the elders of Judah, 'Why should you be the last to restore the king to his palace? The talk of all Israel has reached the king at his house.
You are my brothers, my flesh and blood. So why should you be the last to restore the king?'
And tell Amasa, 'Aren't you my flesh and blood? May God punish me and do so severely if you don't become commander of the army from now on instead of Joab!' "
So he won over all the men of Judah, and they sent word to the king: "Come back, you and all your servants."
References for 2 Samuel 19:14
Then the king returned. When he arrived at the Jordan, Judah came to Gilgal to meet the king and escort him across the Jordan.
Shimei son of Gera, a Benjaminite from Bahurim, hurried down with the men of Judah to meet King David.
There were 1,000 men from Benjamin with him. Ziba, an attendant from the house of Saul, with his 15 sons and 20 servants also rushed down to the Jordan ahead of the king.
References for 2 Samuel 19:17
They forded the Jordan to bring the king's household across and do whatever the king desired. When Shimei son of Gera crossed the Jordan, he fell down before the king
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and said to him, "My lord, don't hold me guilty, and don't remember your servant's wrongdoing on the day my lord the king left Jerusalem. May the king not take it to heart.
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For your servant knows that I have sinned. But look! Today I am the first one of the entire house of Joseph to come down to meet my lord the king."
Abishai son of Zeruiah asked, "Shouldn't Shimei be put to death for this, because he ridiculed the Lord's anointed?"
References for 2 Samuel 19:21
David answered, "Sons of Zeruiah, do we agree on anything? Have you become my adversary today? Should any man be killed in Israel today? Am I not aware that today I'm king over Israel?"
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So the king said to Shimei, "You will not die." Then the king gave him his oath.
Mephibosheth, Saul's grandson, also went down to meet the king. He had not taken care of his feet, trimmed his moustache, or washed his clothes from the day the king left until the day he returned safely.
When he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, the king asked him, "Mephibosheth, why didn't you come with me?"
"My lord the king," he replied, "my servant [Ziba] betrayed me. Actually your servant said: 'I'll saddle the donkey for myself so that I may ride it and go with the king'-for your servant is lame.
References for 2 Samuel 19:26
Ziba slandered your servant to my lord the king. But my lord the king is like the Angel of God, so do whatever you think best.
References for 2 Samuel 19:27
For my grandfather's entire family deserves death from my lord the king, but you set your servant among those who eat at your table. So what further right do I have to keep on making appeals to the king?"
References for 2 Samuel 19:28
The king said to him, "Why keep on speaking about [these] matters of yours? I hereby declare: you and Ziba are to divide the land."
References for 2 Samuel 19:29
Mephibosheth said to the king, "Instead, since my lord the king has come to his palace safely, let Ziba take it all!"
Barzillai the Gileadite had come down from Rogelim and accompanied the king to the Jordan River to see him off at the Jordan.
Barzillai was a very old man-80 years old-and since he was a very wealthy man, he had provided for the needs of the king while he stayed in Mahanaim.
References for 2 Samuel 19:32
The king said to Barzillai, "Cross over with me, and I'll provide for you at my side in Jerusalem."
References for 2 Samuel 19:33
Barzillai replied to the king, "How many years of my life are left that I should go up to Jerusalem with the king?
I'm now 80 years old. Can I discern what is pleasant and what is not? Can your servant taste what he eats or drinks? Can I still hear the voice of male and female singers? Why should your servant be an added burden to my lord the king?
Since your servant is only going with the king a little way across the Jordan, why should the king repay me with such a reward?
Please let your servant return so that I may die in my own city near the tomb of my father and mother. But here is your servant Chimham: let him cross over with my lord the king. Do for him what seems good to you."
References for 2 Samuel 19:37
The king replied, "Chimham will cross over with me, and I will do for him what seems good to you, and whatever you desire from me I will do for you."
References for 2 Samuel 19:38
So all the people crossed the Jordan, and then the king crossed. The king kissed Barzillai and blessed him, and Barzillai returned to his home.
The king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went with him. All the troops of Judah and half of Israel's escorted the king.
Suddenly, all the men of Israel came to the king. They asked him, "Why did our brothers, the men of Judah, take you away secretly and transport the king and his household across the Jordan, along with all of David's men?"
All the men of Judah responded to the men of Israel, "Because the king is our relative. Why does this make you angry? Have we ever eaten anything of the king's or been honored at all?"
References for 2 Samuel 19:42
The men of Israel answered the men of Judah: "We have 10 shares in the king, so we have a greater [claim] to David than you. Why then do you despise us? Weren't we the first to speak of restoring our king?" But the words of the men of Judah were harsher than those of the men of Israel.
References for 2 Samuel 19:43