Ben Sira 32

1 If you are chosen to preside at a banquet, don't put on airs. Just be like everyone else. Look after the guests before you sit down.
2 After you have performed your duties, you can sit down and enjoy yourself with the others. They will respect you for doing a good job.
3 If you are older than most of the guests, you may talk; that is your right. But you should know what you are talking about and not interrupt the music.
4 If entertainment is being provided, don't keep up a steady conversation; it's the wrong time to show off your wit.
5 Music at a banquet where wine is served is like a ruby set in gold.
6 Good music and good wine - an emerald set in gold.
7 If you are young, don't speak unless you have to, but never more than twice, and only if someone speaks to you first.
8 Come to the point and say it all in a few words. Show that you are well-informed, but stay quiet.
9 Don't treat important people as if you were their equal and don't make a nuisance of yourself by asking them a lot of questions.
10 The reputation of a modest person goes before him, as lightning before thunder.
11 Leave the party at the right time and never be the last to go. Don't linger at the door; just go straight home.
12 There you can enjoy yourself as you wish, but don't commit the sin of bragging.
13 And don't forget to thank your Creator for letting you enjoy so many good things.
14 If you fear the Lord, you will accept his correction. He will bless those who get up early in the morning to pray.
15 Study his Law, and you will master it, unless you are insincere about it, in which case you will fail.
16 If you fear the Lord, you will know what is right, and you will be famous for your fairness.
17 Sinners have no use for correction, and will interpret the Law to suit themselves.
18 Sensible people will consider every opinion, but arrogant people will let nothing stand in their way.
19 Never do anything without thinking it through, and once you have done something, don't look back and wish you had done something else.
20 Don't take a course of action that is dangerous, and don't make the same mistake twice.
21 Don't be too sure of yourself, even when the way looks easy.
22 Always watch where you are going.
23 Whatever you do be careful; this is keeping the Lord's commands.
24 Believing in the Law means keeping the Lord's commands. If you trust the Lord, you cannot lose.

Footnotes 5

  • [a]. [Hebrew] make . . . questions; [Greek] keep talking when someone else is speaking.
  • [b]. [Hebrew] arrogant; [Greek] foreign and arrogant.
  • [c]. [Hebrew] make . . . twice; [Greek] stumble on stones.
  • [d]. [Hebrew] watch . . . going; [Greek] look out for your children.
  • [e]. [Hebrew] be careful; [Greek] have confidence in yourself.
Scripture taken from the Good News Translation - Second Edition, Copyright 1992 by American Bible Society. Used by Permission.