James 4:2-3 NIV

2 You want something but don't get it. You kill1 and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God.

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3 When you ask, you do not receive,2 because you ask with wrong motives,3 that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

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