2 Samuel 14:29; 2 Samuel 16:19

29 Therefore Absalom sent for Joab, to have sent him to the king; but he would not come to him: and when he sent again the second time, he would not come .
19 And again, whom should I serve ? should I not serve in the presence of his son? as I have served in thy father's presence, so will I be in thy presence.