The host, who invited both of you, will come to you and say, 'Give this person your seat.' Then you will be embarrassed and will have to move to the last place.
So when you are invited, go sit in a seat that is not important. When the host comes to you, he may say, 'Friend, move up here to a more important place.' Then all the other guests will respect you.
All who make themselves great will be made humble, but those who make themselves humble will be made great."
Then Jesus said to the man who had invited him, "When you give a lunch or a dinner, don't invite only your friends, your family, your other relatives, and your rich neighbors. At another time they will invite you to eat with them, and you will be repaid.
Instead, when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind.
Then you will be blessed, because they have nothing and cannot pay you back. But you will be repaid when the good people rise from the dead."
One of those at the table with Jesus heard these things and said to him, "Happy are the people who will share in the meal in God's kingdom."
Jesus said to him, "A man gave a big banquet and invited many people.
When it was time to eat, the man sent his servant to tell the guests, 'Come. Everything is ready.'
"But all the guests made excuses. The first one said, 'I have just bought a field, and I must go look at it. Please excuse me.'
Another said, 'I have just bought five pairs of oxen; I must go and try them. Please excuse me.'