Ben Sira 38:17

17 Let your weeping be bitter and your wailing fervent; make your mourning worthy of the departed, for one day, or two, to avoid criticism; then be comforted for your grief.

Ben Sira 38:17 In-Context

15 He who sins against his Maker, will be defiant toward the physician.
16 My child, let your tears fall for the dead, and as one in great pain begin the lament. Lay out the body with due ceremony, and do not neglect the burial.
17 Let your weeping be bitter and your wailing fervent; make your mourning worthy of the departed, for one day, or two, to avoid criticism; then be comforted for your grief.
18 For grief may result in death, and a sorrowful heart saps one's strength.
19 When a person is taken away, sorrow is over; but the life of the poor weighs down the heart.
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