4 For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote unto you with many tears; not that ye should be grieved, but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly unto you.
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For I wrote you out of great distress and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to grieve you but to let you know the depth of my love for you.
5 But if any have caused grief, he hath not grieved me, but in part: that I may not overcharge you all.
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If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you to some extent—not to put it too severely.