Proverbs 18:12-22

12 If a man's heart is proud, he will be destroyed. So don't be proud if you want to be honored.

13 To answer before listening is foolish and shameful.

14 A man's cheerful heart gives him strength when he is sick. You can't keep going if you have a broken spirit.

15 Those whose hearts understand what is right get knowledge. The ears of those who are wise listen for it.

16 A gift opens the way for the one who gives it. It helps him meet important people.

17 The first one to tell his case seems right. Then someone else comes forward and questions him.

18 Casting lots will put a stop to arguing. It will keep the strongest enemies apart.

19 A broken friendship is harder to deal with than a city that has high walls around it. And arguing is like the locked gates of a mighty city.

20 A man can fill his stomach with what he says. The words from his lips can satisfy him.

21 Your tongue has the power of life and death. Those who love to talk will eat the fruit of their words.

22 The one who finds a wife finds what is good. He receives favor from the Lord.