Christian psychiatrists Drs. Frank B. Minirth and Paul D. Meier insist that any patient of theirs who is a Christian must be honest and use language that expresses the reality of the situation. In their book Happiness is a Choice the authors' state, "…we cringe whenever patients use the word 'can't.' They say, for example, 'I just can't get along with my husband.' 'I can't love my wife…' If an individual changes all his cant's to wont's, he stops avoiding the truth, quits deceiving himself, and starts living in reality?