Ben Sira 28:7-17

7 Remember the commandments, and do not be angry with your neighbor; remember the covenant of the Most High, and overlook ignorance.
8 Refrain from strife, and you will lessen sins; for a man given to anger will kindle strife,
9 and a sinful man will disturb friends and inject enmity among those who are at peace.
10 In proportion to the fuel for the fire, so will be the burning, and in proportion to the obstinacy of strife will be the burning; in proportion to the strength of the man will be his anger, and in proportion to his wealth he will heighten his wrath.
11 A hasty quarrel kindles fire, and urgent strife sheds blood.
12 If you blow on a spark, it will glow; if you spit on it, it will be put out; and both come out of your mouth.
13 Curse the whisperer and deceiver, for he has destroyed many who were at peace.
14 Slander has shaken many, and scattered them from nation to nation, and destroyed strong cities, and overturned the houses of great men.
15 Slander has driven away courageous women, and deprived them of the fruit of their toil.
16 Whoever pays heed to slander will not find rest, nor will he settle down in peace.
17 The blow of a whip raises a welt, but a blow of the tongue crushes the bones.
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