Ben Sira 37:1-11

1 Every friend will say, "I too am a friend"; but some friends are friends only in name.
2 Is it not a grief to the death when a companion and friend turns to enmity?
3 O evil imagination, why were you formed to cover the land with deceit?
4 Some companions rejoice in the happiness of a friend, but in time of trouble are against him.
5 Some companions help a friend for their stomach's sake, and in the face of battle take up the shield.
6 Do not forget a friend in your heart, and be not unmindful of him in your wealth.
7 Every counselor praises counsel, but some give counsel in their own interest.
8 Be wary of a counselor, and learn first what is his interest -- for he will take thought for himself -- lest he cast the lot against you
9 and tell you, "Your way is good," and then stand aloof to see what will happen to you.
10 Do not consult the one who looks at you suspiciously; hide your counsel from those who are jealous of you.
11 Do not consult with a woman about her rival or with a coward about war, with a merchant about barter or with a buyer about selling, with a grudging man about gratitude or with a merciless man about kindness, with an idler about any work or with a man hired for a year about completing his work, with a lazy servant about a big task -- pay no attention to these in any matter of counsel.
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