good reputation is better than a fat bank account. Your death date tells more than your birth date.
You learn more at a funeral than at a feast - After all, that's where we'll end up. We might discover something from it.
Crying is better than laughing. It blotches the face but it scours the heart.
Sages invest themselves in hurt and grieving. Fools waste their lives in fun and games.
You'll get more from the rebuke of a sage Than from the song and dance of fools.
The giggles of fools are like the crackling of twigs Under the cooking pot. And like smoke.