Now a bishop must be above reproach, married only once, temperate, sensible, respectable, hospitable, an apt teacher,
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not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, and not a lover of money.
He must manage his own household well, keeping his children submissive and respectful in every way—
for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how can he take care of God's church?
He must not be a recent convert, or he may be puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil.
Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace and the snare of the devil.
Deacons likewise must be serious, not double-tongued, not indulging in much wine, not greedy for money;
they must hold fast to the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience.
And let them first be tested; then, if they prove themselves blameless, let them serve as deacons.
Women likewise must be serious, not slanderers, but temperate, faithful in all things.
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Let deacons be married only once, and let them manage their children and their households well;
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