Luke 14:8; Luke 14:12

8 “When someone invites you to a wedding feast, do not take the place of honor, for a person more distinguished than you may have been invited.

12 Then Jesus said to his host, “When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid.