Ben Sira 22:14-24

14 What is heavier than lead? And what is its name except "Fool"?
15 Sand, salt, and a piece of iron are easier to bear than a stupid man.
16 A wooden beam firmly bonded into a building will not be torn loose by an earthquake; so the mind firmly fixed on a reasonable counsel will not be afraid in a crisis.
17 A mind settled on an intelligent thought is like the stucco decoration on the wall of a colonnade.
18 Fences set on a high place will not stand firm against the wind; so a timid heart with a fool's purpose will not stand firm against any fear.
19 A man who pricks an eye will make tears fall, and one who pricks the heart makes it show feeling.
20 One who throws a stone at birds scares them away, and one who reviles a friend will break off the friendship.
21 Even if you have drawn your sword against a friend, do not despair, for a renewal of friendship is possible.
22 If you have opened your mouth against your friend, do not worry, for reconciliation is possible; but as for reviling, arrogance, disclosure of secrets, or a treacherous blow -- in these cases any friend will flee.
23 Gain the trust of your neighbor in his poverty, that you may rejoice with him in his prosperity; stand by him in time of affliction, that you may share with him in his inheritance.
24 The vapor and smoke of the furnace precede the fire; so insults precede bloodshed.
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