This is a true saying: If a man is eager to be a church leader, he desires an excellent work.
A church leader must be without fault; he must have only one wife, be sober, self-controlled, and orderly; he must welcome strangers in his home; he must be able to teach; 1
References for 1 Timothy 3:2
3.2-7 Titus 1.6-9.
he must not be a drunkard or a violent man, but gentle and peaceful; he must not love money;
he must be able to manage his own family well and make his children obey him with all respect.
For if a man does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of the church of God?
He must be mature in the faith, so that he will not swell up with pride and be condemned, as the Devil was.
He should be a man who is respected by the people outside the church, so that he will not be disgraced and fall into the Devil's trap.
Church helpers must also have a good character and be sincere; they must not drink too much wine or be greedy for money;
they should hold to the revealed truth of the faith with a clear conscience.
They should be tested first, and then, if they pass the test, they are to serve.
Their wives also must be of good character and must not gossip; they must be sober and honest in everything.
References for 1 Timothy 3:11
A church helper must have only one wife, and be able to manage his children and family well.
References for 1 Timothy 3:12
Those helpers who do their work well win for themselves a good standing and are able to speak boldly about their faith in Christ Jesus.