So I made up my mind not to make you another painful visit.
For if I cause you pain, who is there to make me glad but the one whom I have pained?
And I wrote as I did, so that when I came, I might not suffer pain from those who should have made me rejoice; for I am confident about all of you, that my joy would be the joy of all of you.
For I wrote you out of much distress and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to cause you pain, but to let you know the abundant love that I have for you.
But if anyone has caused pain, he has caused it not to me, but to some extent—not to exaggerate it—to all of you.
This punishment by the majority is enough for such a person;
so now instead you should forgive and console him, so that he may not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow.
So I urge you to reaffirm your love for him.
I wrote for this reason: to test you and to know whether you are obedient in everything.