1 Samuel 18:17-19

17 Then Saul said to David, "1Here is my older daughter Merab; I will give her to you as a wife, only be a valiant man for me and fight 2the LORD'S battles." For Saul thought, "My hand shall not be against him, but 3let the hand of the Philistines be against him."
18 But David said to Saul, "4Who am I, and what is my life or my father's family in Israel, that I should be the king's son-in-law?"
19 So it came about at the time when Merab, Saul's daughter, should have been given to David, that she was given to 5Adriel 6the Meholathite for a wife.

1 Samuel 18:17-19 Meaning and Commentary

INTRODUCTION TO FIRST SAMUEL 18

This chapter gives an account of the respect shown to David by Saul and Jonathan, by the servants of Saul, and all the people, and of what was said in his praise in the songs of the women, 1Sa 18:1-7; which latter gave Saul a great offence, and upon which he envied him, and eyed him, and indeed sought his life, and removed him from him; and yet still he continued the darling of the people, behaving wisely among them, which greatly embarrassed Saul, that be knew not what to do, 1Sa 18:8-16; he proposed his eldest daughter to him in marriage, which he had a claim to by killing the Philistine, and then he cheated him by giving her to another, 1Sa 18:17-19; and then he offered his youngest daughter to him, on condition that he would bring him an hundred foreskins of the Philistines, execution of which he thought his life would be exposed to danger, which yet he performed, 1Sa 18:20-27; and having the affection of his wife, and the good esteem of the servants of Saul, Saul was more afraid of him, and became his enemy, 1Sa 18:28-30.

Cross References 6

  • 1. 1 Samuel 17:25
  • 2. Numbers 21:14; 1 Samuel 17:36, 47; 1 Samuel 25:28
  • 3. 1 Samuel 18:21, 25
  • 4. 1 Samuel 9:21; 1 Samuel 18:23; 2 Samuel 7:18
  • 5. 2 Samuel 21:8
  • 6. Judges 7:22; 1 Kings 19:16
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