Visiting a church for the first time can be exciting, but it can also fill you with anxiety. You are walking into a building where chances are you don’t know anyone. Most of the time, you don’t know what to expect, and those first impressions will go a long way in determining your opinion of this church. Sometimes, the more well-known a church is, the higher your expectations of what that experience will be.
Regardless of the size or type of church, there are some things churches do that drive new visitors crazy. I have been in churches for over 40 years. I have seen and experienced many things that turn people off and cause them to leave and not come back. For most churches, I don’t believe they do these things with malicious intent, but when they happen, instead of welcoming the new visitor back, it pushes them away.
When a person visits your church for the first time, one question they will answer for themselves is, would I be willing to come back again? You need to make sure the answer to that question is yes. One way to ensure that is by avoiding some of the things on this list.
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