Ben Sira 18:13-23

13 The compassion of human beings is for their neighbors, but the compassion of the Lord is for every living thing. He rebukes and trains and teaches them, and turns them back, as a shepherd his flock.
14 He has compassion on those who accept his discipline and who are eager for his precepts.
15 My child, do not mix reproach with your good deeds, or spoil your gift by harsh words.
16 Does not the dew give relief from the scorching heat? So a word is better than a gift.
17 Indeed, does not a word surpass a good gift? Both are to be found in a gracious person.
18 A fool is ungracious and abusive, and the gift of a grudging giver makes the eyes dim.
19 Before you speak, learn; and before you fall ill, take care of your health.
20 Before judgment comes, examine yourself; and at the time of scrutiny you will find forgiveness.
21 Before falling ill, humble yourself; and when you have sinned, repent.
22 Let nothing hinder you from paying a vow promptly, and do not wait until death to be released from it.
23 Before making a vow, prepare yourself; do not be like one who puts the Lord to the test.
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