Ben Sira 18:15

15 My child, do not mix reproach with your good deeds, or spoil your gift by harsh words.

Ben Sira 18:15 In-Context

13 The compassion of human beings is for their neighbors, but the compassion of the Lord is for every living thing. He rebukes and trains and teaches them, and turns them back, as a shepherd his flock.
14 He has compassion on those who accept his discipline and who are eager for his precepts.
15 My child, do not mix reproach with your good deeds, or spoil your gift by harsh words.
16 Does not the dew give relief from the scorching heat? So a word is better than a gift.
17 Indeed, does not a word surpass a good gift? Both are to be found in a gracious person.
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