Ben Sira 22:20-25

20 One who throws a stone at birds scares them away, and one who reviles a friend destroys a friendship.
21 Even if you draw your sword against a friend, do not despair, for there is a way back.
22 If you open your mouth against your friend, do not worry, for reconciliation is possible. But as for reviling, arrogance, disclosure of secrets, or a treacherous blow— in these cases any friend will take to flight.
23 Gain the trust of your neighbor in his poverty, so that you may rejoice with him in his prosperity. Stand by him in time of distress, so that you may share with him in his inheritance.
24 The vapor and smoke of the furnace precede the fire; so insults precede bloodshed.
25 I am not ashamed to shelter a friend, and I will not hide from him.

Footnotes 1

  • [a]. Other ancient authorities add [For one should not always despise restricted circumstances, or admire a rich person who is stupid.]
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