So don't be foolish, but try to understand what the will of the Lord is.
Don't get drunk with wine, because it makes you lose control. Instead, keep on being filled with the Spirit -
sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs to each other; sing to the Lord and make music in your heart to him;
always give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Yeshua the Messiah.
Submit to one another in fear of the Messiah.
Wives should submit to their husbands as they do to the Lord;
because the husband is head of the wife, just as the Messiah, as head of the Messianic Community, is himself the one who keeps the body safe.
Just as the Messianic Community submits to the Messiah, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
As for husbands, love your wives, just as the Messiah loved the Messianic Community, indeed, gave himself up on its behalf,
in order to set it apart for God, making it clean through immersion in the mikveh, so to speak,
in order to present the Messianic Community to himself as a bride to be proud of, without a spot, wrinkle or any such thing, but holy and without defect.