the person who invited both of you might come and say to you, `Give this man your place.' Then you will be humiliated as you go to take the least important place.
Instead, when you are invited, go and sit in the least important place; so that when the one who invited you comes, he will say to you, `Go on up to a better seat.' Then you will be honored in front of everyone sitting with you.
Because everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but everyone who humbles himself will be exalted."
Yeshua also said to the one who had invited him, "When you give a lunch or a dinner, don't invite your friends, brothers, relatives or rich neighbors; for they may well invite you in return, and that will be your repayment.
Instead, when you have a party, invite poor people, disfigured people, the crippled, the blind!
How blessed you will be that they have nothing with which to repay you! For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."
On hearing this, one of the people at the table with Yeshua said to him, "How blessed are those who eat bread in the Kingdom of God!"
But he replied, "Once a man gave a banquet and invited many people.
When the time came for the banquet, he sent his slave to tell those who had been invited, `Come! Everything is ready!'
But they responded with a chorus of excuses. The first said to him, `I've just bought a field, and I have to go out and see it. Please accept my apologies.'
Another said, `I've just bought five yoke of oxen, and I'm on my way to test them out. Please accept my apologies.'