Jennifer Slattery

Early in my faith journey, I’d read verses telling us not to worry or feel anxious, and I felt defeated when my emotions failed to adhere to biblical truth. I’ve since discovered that to experience the freedom Christ died to give me, I need to apply all of Scripture.

When I first began learning how to align my thoughts, will, and actions with biblical principles, I found the simplicity in Proverbs particularly helpful. Following its practical instruction helped me eliminate behaviors that led to heightened anxiety, thereby allowing me to live with increased peace. 

Here are 8 Proverbs I found most transformative.

3 Proverbs for Financial Worries

1. Don’t Be a Slave to Debt

“The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender” (Proverbs 22:7).

Early in my marriage, my husband and I often fought about our inability to manage money. Our “date nights” frequently involved us around walking the mall and buying whatever captured our attention. Caught up in the fun and spontaneity in the moment, we rarely paused to consider how much we spent — until we maxed out credit cards. One Christmas, we faced a difficult choice: apply for more credit and slip further into debt or change our unhealthy relationship with material things. 

Proverbs 22:7 helped us recognize how enslaved we were becoming to our creditors and inspired us to live differently.

Thankfully, the church we attended offered financial classes. We signed up and began changing the unhealthy spending habits that kept us on edge, in conflict, and could’ve led to disastrous results.

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In faith circles, we hear a lot about holding tight to God’s promises and the freedom that comes from anchoring our souls in Scripture. However, we experience transformation and peace from applying His truth, as He defines it, not whatever affirmations or assurances our emotions and easily-deceived minds conjure.

We cannot accurately understand the Lord’s intended message apart from its cultural and literary context. Otherwise, we risk unknowingly conforming Scripture to our beliefs and opinions, or those held by charismatic leaders, rather than allowing it to mold us into men and women who more accurately resemble Christ. We’re also prone to create or pursue a god of our own making, thereby hindering our relationship with the Lord and our ability to experience the freedom He offers.

Here are three verses we often misquote, and how this can affect our relationship with God.

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Hard news can shake our hearts and leave us searching for hope. Tonight's prayer reminds us that God's presence remains near, even in our deepest moments of pain and uncertainty. 

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While we may not always understand God’s ways, we can trust His heart, and His promise to use everything we encounter for our good and His glory (Romans 8:28-30).

Death. The very word can trigger images of darkness, men and women in black, of grief, and for some, fear. But God doesn’t want us to live in fear nor defeat. He wants us to live, and die, with the confidence that comes from knowing we belong to the victorious, risen King who defeated death when He died on the cross and rose from the grave.

Summer allows some of us to slow down, take vacations, read those books gathering dust on our bedside table, and invest more time in our relationship with God and others. Some of us enter June planning to capitalize on our more relaxed schedules, but we struggle to follow through on our best intentions. And still others quickly find themselves stressed and overwhelmed as they try to balance work with kids off of school and inconsistent schedules.

While this season will look different for each of us, our faithful, ever-present Father remains the same. He knows the challenges we’ll face, what days will require more of His strength, and every unexpected and uncommitted moment we can maximize or waste. He doesn’t hold us accountable for what we don’t possess, but He does invite us to use the gifts He has provided well – time included.

As Gordon T. Smith, author of Courage and Calling, wrote:

“Living well, surely, is a matter of taking seriously the life that has been given to us — the opportunities and challenges that are unique to us, to our lives, our circumstances. … We are not being asked to take responsibility for anything other than the hand that has been dealt to us — including, well, everything! Our gifts, talents and potential, of course. But also the range of setbacks, disappointments and limitations that have been thrust on us.”

This echoes Scripture’s encouragement that we make the most of every opportunity.

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Early in my faith journey, I routinely felt stuck. Stuck in my anxiety and fear, my ungodly responses, bitterness I couldn’t seem to shake, and my constant negative self-talk. I often felt like a failure when I’d compare myself to the more spiritually mature men and women at church, not realizing I was witnessing the results of a lifetime of growth.

Now, when spiritual discouragement hits, I remind myself that God always finishes the work He starts (Philippians 1:6). This means, so long as I continually pursue Him and His will, as best as I’m able, He will mold me into a radiant reflection of His Son.

This has always been his way — to rescue spiritually broken and enslaved humans heading toward self-destructive pits, and lovingly craft them into beautiful masterpieces (Ephesians 2:10). We see examples of this throughout Scripture. Each redeemed life provides a radiant display of God’s grace for His wounded and often deceived creation.

Because our Father doesn’t change, each biblical transformation story assures us that He won’t abandon us in our mess but will tenderly mold us into men and women who more radiantly reflect His Son (2 Corinthians 3:18).

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When prayers feel unanswered, it’s easy to lose heart—but Jesus calls us to keep praying, trusting that God sees, cares, and will act in His perfect time.

Unprocessed wounds, fear, and catastrophic thinking can lead to self-sabotaging decisions. When experiencing pain and injustice, often, all we want is relief. But what happens when our desire for relief leads us to greater danger?

Each Mother’s Day, I wrestle with conflicting emotions. As a mom, I love to celebrate the gift God gave me in my daughter and the special moments we spend together. The cards she writes sweet messages in. Hand-made gifts. Family dinners filled with laughter as we reflect upon previous years. But as a daughter who has lived most of her life disconnected from her mom, this annual tradition feels confusing and hard. I’ve spent hours standing in the greeting card aisle, searching for that perfect card. One that feels honest, authentic, and honoring.

To avoid inflicting pain, I felt I had to send something. But all those nostalgic poems commemorating memories and heart-felt impact didn’t feel true. And so, I’d select something funny and light, add a blessing for a special, sun-filled day, and send it off, grieving the relationship I’ve never had and likely never would.

Working with women across the globe, listening to their struggles, stories, and hurts, I’ve come to realize I’m not alone. Many people are hurting deeply and feeling conflicted regarding how to respond in love, grace, and truth. This can be even more confusing for those connected with a faith community where reconciliation, restoration, and sacrificial love is emphasized. But love doesn’t mean ignoring or accepting sin, poor behavior, and dysfunction. Love and truth must always coexist. The challenge, then, is finding where love and truth intersect and how to experience personal healing in the process.

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Feeling overwhelmed by what God has placed in front of you? Discover how wholehearted devotion and daily dependence can prepare your heart for the assignment He’s entrusted to you.

Our unchanging Father holds no favorites. This means the deep truths Paul expressed to the Ephesians apply to us as well. We are God’s treasured, wanted, supernaturally supplied, redeemed, forgiven sons and daughters destined for holiness.

Anxiety is not a modern issue; people in ancient biblical times struggled with fear, doubt, and uncertainty too. Let their prayers wash over you and your situation, and encourage you to turn to God in prayer no matter what you are facing.

The holidays are a time to come together with family, friends, and loved ones. But for those with broken families or unhealthy relationships, this can cause more stress than joy. Our Lord desires us to live in peace, and these seven biblical tips can help you refocus on that this season.