Deuteronomy 21:10-23

Marrying a Captive Woman

10 When you go to war against your enemies and the LORD your God delivers them into your hands and you take captives,
11 if you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you may take her as your wife.
12 Bring her into your home and have her shave her head, trim her nails
13 and put aside the clothes she was wearing when captured. After she has lived in your house and mourned her father and mother for a full month, then you may go to her and be her husband and she shall be your wife.
14 If you are not pleased with her, let her go wherever she wishes. You must not sell her or treat her as a slave, since you have dishonored her.

The Right of the Firstborn

15 If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love,
16 when he wills his property to his sons, he must not give the rights of the firstborn to the son of the wife he loves in preference to his actual firstborn, the son of the wife he does not love.
17 He must acknowledge the son of his unloved wife as the firstborn by giving him a double share of all he has. That son is the first sign of his father’s strength. The right of the firstborn belongs to him.

A Rebellious Son

18 If someone has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and will not listen to them when they discipline him,
19 his father and mother shall take hold of him and bring him to the elders at the gate of his town.
20 They shall say to the elders, “This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious. He will not obey us. He is a glutton and a drunkard.”
21 Then all the men of his town are to stone him to death. You must purge the evil from among you. All Israel will hear of it and be afraid.
22 If someone guilty of a capital offense is put to death and their body is exposed on a pole,
23 you must not leave the body hanging on the pole overnight. Be sure to bury it that same day, because anyone who is hung on a pole is under God’s curse. You must not desecrate the land the LORD your God is giving you as an inheritance.

Deuteronomy 21:10-23 Meaning and Commentary

INTRODUCTION TO DEUTERONOMY 21

This chapter treats of the beheading of the heifer, for the expiation of unknown murder, and the rules to be observed in it, De 21:1-9 of a beautiful captive woman an Israelite is desirous of having for his wife, and what methods he must take to accomplish it, De 21:10-14, of giving the double portion to the firstborn, which he must not be deprived of in favour of the son of a beloved wife, De 21:15-17 and of the stubborn and rebellious son, who remaining so must be put to death, De 21:18-21 and of burying a person hanged on a tree the same day he is executed, De 21:22,23.

Cross References 24

  • 1. Joshua 21:44
  • 2. 1 Kings 8:46; 1 Chronicles 9:1; Ezra 5:12; Jeremiah 40:1; Ezekiel 1:1; Ezekiel 17:12; Daniel 2:25; Micah 4:10
  • 3. Genesis 6:2
  • 4. S Genesis 34:8
  • 5. S Leviticus 14:9; Numbers 6:9; S Numbers 8:7; 1 Corinthians 11:5
  • 6. Psalms 45:10
  • 7. S Genesis 34:2
  • 8. S Genesis 4:19
  • 9. Genesis 29:33
  • 10. 1 Chronicles 26:10
  • 11. 2 Kings 2:9; Isaiah 40:2; Isaiah 61:7; Zechariah 9:12
  • 12. S Genesis 49:3
  • 13. Genesis 25:31; Luke 15:12
  • 14. Psalms 78:8; Jeremiah 5:23; Zephaniah 3:1
  • 15. Proverbs 30:17
  • 16. S Genesis 31:35; Proverbs 1:8; Isaiah 30:1; Ephesians 6:1-3
  • 17. S Leviticus 20:9
  • 18. Deuteronomy 19:19; 1 Corinthians 5:13*
  • 19. S Deuteronomy 13:11
  • 20. Deuteronomy 22:26; Matthew 26:66; Mark 14:64; Acts 23:29
  • 21. Joshua 8:29; Joshua 10:27; John 19:31
  • 22. Ezekiel 39:12
  • 23. Ezra 6:11; Esther 2:23; Esther 7:9; Esther 8:7; Esther 9:13,25; Isaiah 50:11; Galatians 3:13*
  • 24. S Leviticus 18:25; Numbers 35:34
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