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4 Comforting Lessons from the Account of Jesus Calming the Storm

4 Comforting Lessons from the Account of Jesus Calming the Storm

September 26, 2024

Imagine being stuck in the middle of a storm in the middle of the night, with no GPS, no cell phone, and no lifeboat. You see the boat filling with water and you start to panic, understanding that this will likely be your last moments alive. Fear is the most natural response to this kind of terrifying experience.

This is the situation that Jesus’ disciples found themselves in. There was no chance of rescue outside of a miracle and the waves and wind would not relent. In Matthew 8:23-24 we read, “Jesus got into a boat, and His followers went with Him. A great storm arose on the lake so that the waves began to sink the boat.” The Greek word for this storm is seismos which paints the picture of a very serious storm.

Maybe you can relate to the situation the disciples found themselves in! These men followed Jesus into a boat onto the water, believing that with him they would be safe, but all of a sudden they found their lives to be in danger! Have you followed Jesus into the unknown, believing he would protect you and keep your life free of storms, until you were surprised to find that tribulations are still a part of your story?

Oftentimes we mistake God’s promise of eternal salvation with a ticket to a trial-free life in the here and now. We might be surprised to learn that the Bible actually teaches that in this life we will experience suffering (John 16:33). The disciples were also surprised to be stuck in a tempest while their leader took a nap (Matthew 8:24). Thankfully we can learn from this account how to cling to Jesus in the storm.

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3 Dangers of Having a Controlling Spirit

3 Dangers of Having a Controlling Spirit

September 9, 2024

Control is something we crave. Each person has preferences, fear, and desires that we desperately want to appease. Yet, God placed us in an ever-changing world and asked for us to surrender to him? How do we manage our need for control in a relationship with a God that leads us towards giving our all to him?

It’s not easy, especially when the things we are trying to manufacture are good on their own. For example, let’s say we have a deep desire to be safe and keep our loved ones safe at all costs. We want to do everything we can to keep ourselves and our loved ones safe. This seems like a noble and worthwhile goal. But if we don’t surrender our need for safety to God’s plan for our life, there can become a disconnect between God’s best for us and the life we are living. Risk is a part of doing Kingdom work, but if our primary goal is safety then we may be paralyzed with fear when the invitation from the Holy Spirit comes to be his hands and feet in a way that may feel scary.

The lie of a controlling spirit is that we know best and that our hypervigilance is the answer to our needs. This is a barrier to forming a trusting relationship with God. Control is our god when we let it become ruler in our lives.

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What Are You Worshipping?

What Are You Worshipping?

August 15, 2024

We were made for worship. Every person created by God lives in a way that worships something. Isaiah 43:21 says, “The people whom I formed for myself that they might declare my praise.” God designed us to praise him, but the enemy often takes advantage of our desire to stand in awe by presenting us with counterfeits of the one true God.

Worship means respectful devotion. It’s loving, honoring, and obeying someone who deserves our highest regard. It’s so easy to let ourselves be distracted by reflections of God rather than striving to honor Him alone.

One way to evaluate if our worship is sincere is to assess what in our life fills our time, consumes our thoughts, and is the object of our affection. If we are honest, there are many “good things” that we prize more than our relationship with Jesus. It’s so easy to do what seems like the right things for the wrong reasons.

For me, I’ve found that parenting oftentimes can become a distraction. I can get so caught up in what my kids need, hovering over them and believing that I am their sole protection, as well as obsessing over my every failure as a mom, that I forget that they are not to be my only object of affection. I am first a child of God, just as they are, and we are to live and worship him together. My primary job as a parent is to show my kids Jesus. I am not to elevate my kids to be more important than Jesus in my life.

That’s just one example of how something good becomes a false god in our lives. Career, success, money, educational goals, entertainment, gender identity, and basically any other human construct can so easily become an idol.

How do we avoid being deceived, distracted, and distanced from God? If we are to be worshippers of truth, we must study what the Bible tells us our worship is to be.

Let’s explore what the Bible tells us about worship:

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4 Amazing Reminders of How We Experience God’s Grace Every Day

4 Amazing Reminders of How We Experience God’s Grace Every Day

August 8, 2024

Grace upon grace. It’s what I am learning I need, especially the older I get and the more responsibilities fill my plate. More and more I feel inadequate at living the way I hope to live. I feel like Paul when he said he can’t seem to get himself to do the things he wants to be doing (Romans 7:15-20).

It’s funny, because the Bible tells us over and over that we need God! We are nothing without his power, his love, his grace, his plan for our lives, and his salvation. But it feels like I am constantly playing whack-a-mole with my pride. This pride tells me over and over that I can do all things by my own strength. A pride that compares to others and tells me I should be doing better than them. A pride that looks to my own strength rather than embraces my deep need for a Savior. I don’t really understand grace.

2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”

Grace gives us license to be real with the world around us. We can boast of our weakness because where I fall short God shows up. My tears are his chance to show his great love for me by covering my wrongs with his love. The Christian life depends on grace every day. It is by God’s loving Spirit that we are given the power to live in a way that is pleasing to God and that our failures don't have the final say in our lives.

Here are four ways the Bible teaches that we experience God’s grace daily:

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