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1 Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to abstain from sexual relations.
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Now, about what you wrote: "It's good for a man not to have sex with a woman."
2 But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.
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Each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband because of sexual immorality.
3 The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs.
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The husband should meet his wife's sexual needs, and the wife should do the same for her husband.
4 The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.
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The wife doesn't have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise, the husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
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Don't refuse to meet each other's needs unless you both agree for a short period of time to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come back together again so that Satan might not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
6 I say this as a concession, not as a command.
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I'm saying this to give you permission; it's not a command.
7 But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.
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I wish all people were like me, but each has a particular gift from God: one has this gift, and another has that one.
8 So I say to those who aren’t married and to widows—it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am.
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I'm telling those who are single and widows that it's good for them to stay single like me.
9 But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust.
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But if they can't control themselves, they should get married, because it's better to marry than to burn with passion.
10 But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.
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I'm passing on the Lord's command to those who are married: A wife shouldn't leave her husband,
11 But if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be reconciled to him. And the husband must not leave his wife.
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but if she does leave him, then she should stay single or be reconciled to her husband. And a man shouldn't divorce his wife.
12 Now, I will speak to the rest of you, though I do not have a direct command from the Lord. If a fellow believer has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to continue living with him, he must not leave her.
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I'm telling everyone else (the Lord didn't say this specifically): If a believer has a wife who doesn't believe, and she agrees to live with him, then he shouldn't divorce her.
13 And if a believing woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to continue living with her, she must not leave him.
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If a woman has a husband who doesn't believe and he agrees to live with her, then she shouldn't divorce him.
14 For the believing wife brings holiness to her marriage, and the believing husband brings holiness to his marriage. Otherwise, your children would not be holy, but now they are holy.
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The husband who doesn't believe belongs to God because of his wife, and the wife who doesn't believe belongs to God because of her husband. Otherwise, your children would be contaminated by the world, but now they are spiritually set apart.
15 (But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.)
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But if a spouse who doesn't believe chooses to leave, then let them leave. The brother or sister isn't tied down in these circumstances. God has called you to peace.
16 Don’t you wives realize that your husbands might be saved because of you? And don’t you husbands realize that your wives might be saved because of you?
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How do you know as a wife if you will save your husband? Or how do you know as a husband if you will save your wife?
17 Each of you should continue to live in whatever situation the Lord has placed you, and remain as you were when God first called you. This is my rule for all the churches.
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Nevertheless, each person should live the kind of life that the Lord assigned when he called each one. This is what I teach in all the churches.
18 For instance, a man who was circumcised before he became a believer should not try to reverse it. And the man who was uncircumcised when he became a believer should not be circumcised now.
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If someone was circumcised when called, he shouldn't try to reverse it. If someone wasn't circumcised when he was called, he shouldn't be circumcised.
19 For it makes no difference whether or not a man has been circumcised. The important thing is to keep God’s commandments.
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Circumcision is nothing; not being circumcised is nothing. What matters is keeping God's commandments.
20 Yes, each of you should remain as you were when God called you.
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Each person should stay in the situation they were in when they were called.
21 Are you a slave? Don’t let that worry you—but if you get a chance to be free, take it.
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If you were a slave when you were called, don't let it bother you. But if you are actually able to be free, take advantage of the opportunity.
22 And remember, if you were a slave when the Lord called you, you are now free in the Lord. And if you were free when the Lord called you, you are now a slave of Christ.
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Anyone who was a slave when they were called by the Lord has the status of being the Lord's free person. In the same way, anyone who was a free person when they were called is Christ's slave.
23 God paid a high price for you, so don’t be enslaved by the world.
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You were bought and paid for. Don't become slaves of people.
24 Each of you, dear brothers and sisters, should remain as you were when God first called you.
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So then, brothers and sisters, each of you should stay with God in the situation you were in when you were called.
25 Now regarding your question about the young women who are not yet married. I do not have a command from the Lord for them. But the Lord in his mercy has given me wisdom that can be trusted, and I will share it with you.
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I don't have a command from the Lord about people who have never been married, but I'll give you my opinion as someone you can trust because of the Lord's mercy.
26 Because of the present crisis, I think it is best to remain as you are.
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So I think this advice is good because of the present crisis: Stay as you are.
27 If you have a wife, do not seek to end the marriage. If you do not have a wife, do not seek to get married.
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If you are married, don't get a divorce. If you are divorced, don't try to find a spouse.
28 But if you do get married, it is not a sin. And if a young woman gets married, it is not a sin. However, those who get married at this time will have troubles, and I am trying to spare you those problems.
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But if you do marry, you haven't sinned; and if someone who hasn't been married gets married, they haven't sinned. But married people will have a hard time, and I'm trying to spare you that.
29 But let me say this, dear brothers and sisters: The time that remains is very short. So from now on, those with wives should not focus only on their marriage.
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This is what I'm saying, brothers and sisters: The time has drawn short. From now on, those who have wives should be like people who don't have them.
30 Those who weep or who rejoice or who buy things should not be absorbed by their weeping or their joy or their possessions.
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Those who are sad should be like people who aren't crying. Those who are happy should be like people who aren't happy. Those who buy something should be like people who don't have possessions.
31 Those who use the things of the world should not become attached to them. For this world as we know it will soon pass away.
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Those who use the world should be like people who aren't preoccupied with it, because this world in its present form is passing away.
32 I want you to be free from the concerns of this life. An unmarried man can spend his time doing the Lord’s work and thinking how to please him.
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I want you to be free from concerns. A man who isn't married is concerned about the Lord's concerns—how he can please the Lord.
33 But a married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife.
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But a married man is concerned about the world's concerns—how he can please his wife.
34 His interests are divided. In the same way, a woman who is no longer married or has never been married can be devoted to the Lord and holy in body and in spirit. But a married woman has to think about her earthly responsibilities and how to please her husband.
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His attention is divided. A woman who isn't married or who is a virgin is concerned about the Lord's concerns so that she can be dedicated to God in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the world's concerns—how she can please her husband.
35 I am saying this for your benefit, not to place restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you serve the Lord best, with as few distractions as possible.
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I'm saying this for your own advantage. It's not to restrict you but rather to promote effective and consistent service to the Lord without distraction.
36 But if a man thinks that he’s treating his fiancée improperly and will inevitably give in to his passion, let him marry her as he wishes. It is not a sin.
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If someone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward an unmarried woman whom he knows, and if he has strong feelings and it seems like the right thing to do, he should do what he wants—he's not sinning—they should get married.
37 But if he has decided firmly not to marry and there is no urgency and he can control his passion, he does well not to marry.
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But if a man stands firm in his decision, and doesn't feel the pressure, but has his own will under control, he does right if he decides in his own heart not to marry the woman.
38 So the person who marries his fiancée does well, and the person who doesn’t marry does even better.
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Therefore, the one who marries the unmarried woman does right, and the one who doesn't get married will do even better.
39 A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but only if he loves the Lord.
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A woman is obligated to stay in her marriage as long as her husband is alive. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry whomever she wants, only it should be a believer in the Lord.
40 But in my opinion it would be better for her to stay single, and I think I am giving you counsel from God’s Spirit when I say this.
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But in my opinion, she will be happier if she stays the way she is. And I think that I have God's Spirit too.
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