4 He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of fulla respect.

Read 1 Timothy 3:4 Using Other Translations

One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive,
He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him.