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Where Is God in Times of Loneliness?

Where Is God in Times of Loneliness?

February 7, 2023

The United States is suffering from a loneliness epidemic. According to the 2018 U.S. Loneliness Index, nearly half of Americans report sometimes or always feeling alone or left out. The same survey revealed one in five people report they rarely or never feel close to people or feel like there are people they can talk to.

Loneliness can sometimes be physical. We may be isolated in our own home. Some may be confined to a hospital bed, a prison cell or somewhere far away from loved ones. However, loneliness is not just bound by geography. It is possible to be surrounded by friends, and still feel desperately lonely. The mind can become its own prison of intruding thoughts, negativity and anxiety. Who will understand the inward battlefield? We can feel loneliness physically, mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually.

In times where loneliness is felt acutely, we may ask “where are you God?” Psalm 42:9-10 says, ‘“Why have you forgotten me? Why must I go about mourning, oppressed by the enemy? My bones suffer mortal agony as my foes taunt me, saying to me all day long, ‘Where is your God?’” The cry of this psalm comes from one who feels forgotten and is taunted by others in the midst of their pain “all day long.” They are in physical distress, as well as afflicted by the words of those against them.

In times of suffering, loneliness can become more unbearable. Longing for the comfort of others, and especially the presence of God, is achingly apparent. It is important in these times to hold onto the truth that God is sovereign over all, and He indwells believers by His Spirit. Whatever our outward or inward struggles with loneliness, as difficult as they are, we must cling to the amazing truth that God is with us (Matthew 1:23).

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7 Reasons Winter Reminds Us to Hold on to Hope

7 Reasons Winter Reminds Us to Hold on to Hope

January 3, 2023

Many people suffer from seasonal depression or feel down in the winter. The trees seem lifeless, we spend a lot more time inside, and it gets darker earlier and for longer stretches of the day. It can also mean we spend more time pondering upon the difficult seasons in our own lives.

Yet, winter always gives way to spring. Life bursts forth from what appeared dead. The days get longer and lighter. The temperature gets warmer, and we venture out to take in the beauty of this welcome change after the harsh winter. The anticipation of spring can remind us to hope in God. He is the everlasting light in this dark world and He will never abandon us.

Here are seven reminders to hold on to hope; whether in the physical season of winter or the personal wintery trials we encounter.

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7 Truly Unexpected Groups You Can Bless This Christmas

7 Truly Unexpected Groups You Can Bless This Christmas

December 13, 2022

Have you ever been blessed by someone unexpectedly? I’ve had anonymous gifts arrive in the mail, spontaneous baking from neighbors, an email from someone encouraging me regarding my writing, and probably far more mercies on a daily basis than I’ll ever realize. The impact of someone deliberately taking time out of their lives to reach out and bless in words and actions stays with you.

As I have sat to write this article, I feel a tinge of embarrassment and regret at how little I feel I have emulated this. I hope that I have been a blessing to others. I just don’t think I often go out of my way intentionally to do it as much as I would like to. I admire those who have a gift in giving. They naturally desire to bless through monetary support, lovingly putting a care package together, or something else that is sure to brighten up someone’s day. I want to be more like that.

There are many ways to bless others. Maybe, like me, you long to be a blessing to someone, but you need ideas or prompting on what this could look like. Here are seven unexpected groups that you can start blessing this holiday season:

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Why Is Jesus Our Good Shepherd?

Why Is Jesus Our Good Shepherd?

June 10, 2022

Without Jesus, we are “harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36). Without God’s initiation, we are lost, dead in sin, and alienated from Him completely. Isaiah 53:6 says, “We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way.” But there is hope in the same verse: “and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all.” We may have gone astray, but all of our sin has been laid on Jesus at the cross.

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6 Ways to Store Up Treasures in Heaven

6 Ways to Store Up Treasures in Heaven

January 20, 2021

In Matthew 6:19-21, Jesus says “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

Treasure is linked to the heart. What does our heart long for? Does it treasure the things of this world like money, fame, possessions, security, success, power and influence? Or is our heart longing for Jesus to be the greatest treasure in our life, both now and for eternity?

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