Ben Sira 13:10

10 Do not be forward, or you may be rebuffed; do not stand aloof, or you will be forgotten.

Ben Sira 13:10 In-Context

8 Take care not to be led astray and humiliated when you are enjoying yourself.
9 When an influential person invites you, be reserved, and he will invite you more insistently.
10 Do not be forward, or you may be rebuffed; do not stand aloof, or you will be forgotten.
11 Do not try to treat him as an equal, or trust his lengthy conversations; for he will test you by prolonged talk, and while he smiles he will be examining you.
12 Cruel are those who do not keep your secrets; they will not spare you harm or imprisonment.
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