The Message Bible MSG
New American Standard Bible NAS
1 Watch what God does, and then you do it, like children who learn proper behavior from their parents.
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Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children;
2 Mostly what God does is love you. Keep company with him and learn a life of love. Observe how Christ loved us. His love was not cautious but extravagant. He didn't love in order to get something from us but to give everything of himself to us. Love like that.
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and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.
3 Don't allow love to turn into lust, setting off a downhill slide into sexual promiscuity, filthy practices, or bullying greed.
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But immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints;
4 Though some tongues just love the taste of gossip, Christians have better uses for language than that. Don't talk dirty or silly. That kind of talk doesn't fit our style. Thanksgiving is our dialect.
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and there must be no filthiness and silly talk, or coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks.
5 You can be sure that using people or religion or things just for what you can get out of them - the usual variations on idolatry - will get you nowhere, and certainly nowhere near the kingdom of Christ, the kingdom of God.
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For this you know with certainty, that no immoral or impure person or covetous man, who is an idolater, has an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.
6 Don't let yourselves get taken in by religious smooth talk. God gets furious with people who are full of religious sales talk but want nothing to do with him.
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Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience.
7 Don't even hang around people like that.
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Therefore do not be partakers with them;
8 You groped your way through that murk once, but no longer. You're out in the open now. The bright light of Christ makes your way plain. So no more stumbling around. Get on with it!
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for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord ; walk as children of Light
9 The good, the right, the true - these are the actions appropriate for daylight hours.
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(for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth ),
10 Figure out what will please Christ, and then do it.
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trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord .
11 Don't waste your time on useless work, mere busywork, the barren pursuits of darkness. Expose these things for the sham they are.
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Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;
12 It's a scandal when people waste their lives on things they must do in the darkness where no one will see.
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for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret.
13 Rip the cover off those frauds and see how attractive they look in the light of Christ.
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But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light.
14 Wake up from your sleep, Climb out of your coffins; Christ will show you the light!
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For this reason it says, "Awake, sleeper, And arise from the dead, And Christ will shine on you."
15 So watch your step. Use your head.
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Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise,
16 Make the most of every chance you get. These are desperate times!
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making the most of your time, because the days are evil.
17 Don't live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants.
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So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
18 Don't drink too much wine. That cheapens your life. Drink the Spirit of God, huge draughts of him.
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And do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit,
19 Sing hymns instead of drinking songs! Sing songs from your heart to Christ.
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speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord ;
20 Sing praises over everything, any excuse for a song to God the Father in the name of our Master, Jesus Christ.
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always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God, even the Father;
21 Out of respect for Christ, be courteously reverent to one another.
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and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ.
22 Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ.
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Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord .
23 The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing.
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For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.
24 So just as the church submits to Christ as he exercises such leadership, wives should likewise submit to their husbands.
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But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church - a love marked by giving, not getting.
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Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her,
26 Christ's love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her,
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so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
27 dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness.
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that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless.
28 And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They're really doing themselves a favor - since they're already "one" in marriage.
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So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself;
29 No one abuses his own body, does he? No, he feeds and pampers it. That's how Christ treats us, the church,
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for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church,
30 since we are part of his body.
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because we are members of His body.
31 And this is why a man leaves father and mother and cherishes his wife. No longer two, they become "one flesh."
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FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND SHALL BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH.
32 This is a huge mystery, and I don't pretend to understand it all. What is clearest to me is the way Christ treats the church.
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This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church.
33 And this provides a good picture of how each husband is to treat his wife, loving himself in loving her, and how each wife is to honor her husband.
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Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.
Published by permission. Originally published by NavPress in English as THE MESSAGE: The Bible in Contemporary Language copyright 2002 by Eugene Peterson. All rights reserved.
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