
God wants couples to enjoy their marriage, and Scripture shows us how to achieve a balanced relationship.
The general instruction of this chapter is to avoid whoredom, and make use of lawful marriage, and keep to that. It is introduced with an exhortation to attend to wisdom and understanding, Pr 5:1,2; one part of which lies in shunning an adulterous woman; who is described by her flattery, with which she deceives; by the end she brings men to, which is destruction and death; and by the uncertainty of her ways, which cannot be known, Pr 5:3-6. Wherefore men are advised to keep at the utmost distance from her, Pr 5:7,8; lest their honour, strength, wealth, and labours, be given to others, Pr 5:9,10; and repentance and mourning follow, when too late, Pr 5:11-14. And, as a remedy against whoredom, entering into a marriage state is advised to, and a strict regard to that; allegorically expressed by a man's drinking water out of his fountain, and by his wife being as a loving hind and pleasant roe to him, the single object of his affections, Pr 5:15-19. As also the consideration of the divine omniscience is proposed, to deter him from the sin of adultery, Pr 5:20,21; as well as the inevitable ruin wicked men are brought into by it, Pr 5:22,23.

God wants couples to enjoy their marriage, and Scripture shows us how to achieve a balanced relationship.

For many married couples, the word enduring sums up their nuptial experience—but it is possible to enjoy marriage.

Skip Heitzig continues in his marriage series, “Keep Calm and Marry On.” The writings of King Solomon give us four areas in which couples could and should be experiencing enjoyment in their married life. Join Skip for the conclusion of “How to Have a Love Affair with Your Spouse, Part 2B.”

Skip Heitzig continues “Keep Calm and Marry On,” a series on Christian marriage. For a majority of couples, the word enduring sums up their married experience. But Scripture offers us another word: enjoying. Join Skip for “How to Have a Love Affair with Your Spouse, Part 2A".
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