Ben Sira 13:9

9 When a powerful man invites you, be reserved; and he will invite you the more often.

Ben Sira 13:9 In-Context

7 He will shame you with his foods, until he has drained you two or three times; and finally he will deride you. Should he see you afterwards, he will forsake you, and shake his head at you.

8 Take care not to be led astray, and not to be humiliated in your feasting.

9 When a powerful man invites you, be reserved; and he will invite you the more often.

10 Do not push forward, lest you be repulsed; and do not remain at a distance, lest you be forgotten.

11 Do not try to treat him as an equal, nor trust his abundance of words; for he will test you through much talk, and while he smiles he will be examining you.