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What I Learned about Thankfulness from My First Thanksgiving Alone
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What I Learned about Thankfulness from My First Thanksgiving Alone

November 11, 2021

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

It’s often easier for us to look back on certain memories with happier feelings than we perhaps had at the time. And while we are certainly called to give thanks in all circumstances, it’s sometimes easier to see the ways God was at work in our lives after everything has played out.

So when I think back on my first (and so far only) Thanksgiving away from family, I can clearly see the ways that God provided for me, even if it wasn’t exactly what I imagined.

Let me set the scene, with a quick story:

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What Was Happening around the Globe When Jesus Was Alive?
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What Was Happening around the Globe When Jesus Was Alive?

September 30, 2021

The spread of Christianity began at the source: with Jesus Himself. He gathered His disciples and explained the gospel to them. They went on after His resurrection to tell others and grow the church. Some, like Peter and Paul, traveled far and wide to spread this important message to more people.

As a history minor and longtime nerd, I had to ask: what was the rest of the world up to when Jesus walked the earth? Think about it, the Creator of the Universe wrapped Himself in flesh and came down to earth to live as a man for about 30 years – and most of the world had no idea.

It’s rare throughout history to find something that impacts the whole world. Even world wars and catastrophic plagues didn’t impact everyone, and you’d be hard-pressed to find a good event that does so.

Except Jesus.

In 313, a mere 300 years after Jesus’ birth, Emperor Constantine made Christianity the official religion of the Roman Empire. It spread through the Roman-occupied world, and missionaries would eventually take it to the corners of the globe. This process wasn’t always done gracefully or in a loving way, but God always has a plan, and throughout history He always has God-fearing men and women in the field, telling others about Him.

Jesus’ birth, life, death and resurrection was meant for all mankind. So even if these ancient peoples didn’t know (or necessarily care) what was happening in Jerusalem in the first century, it was still done for them.

Some Quick Notes on the History

We’ll be looking at roughly 1-100 AD. According to Britannica, Jesus was born between 4 and 6 AD, and died in 30 AD, which about matches up with what most biblical scholars believe. But when looking at the ancient world, it is hard to stick to that small of a timeframe. Some of the nations I researched were in power for 1000 years, and scholars can break that up into chunks, but it’s just impossible to know what was happening in say, exactly 22 AD. Most ancient artifacts are dated for a timeframe, not an exact date.

So we’ll look at what was going on roughly around the time Jesus was alive.

You’ll also see two different ways of marking time in this article. I prefer the terms BC (before Christ) and AD (Anno Domini, the year of our Lord). But many historians have switched to different terms: BCE (before the common era) and CE (common era). It’s a secular term that removes God, but the two are interchangeable otherwise. BC = BCE. AD = CE.

Finally, I am not a professional historian, but I did my best researching this article! I’ve studied history and historiography in college, so I do have some experience with this. But if you see anything that’s incorrect, please let me know and I’ll be happy to change it!

Ok, let’s dive in.

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3 Reasons It Is Bad Theology to Promise Single Christians a Spouse
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3 Reasons It Is Bad Theology to Promise Single Christians a Spouse

September 16, 2021

Bad theology, whether well-intentioned or not, can pop up anywhere in our world. But it seems to show itself the most on social media. Inspirational posts and messages twist Scripture or outright lie about the promises of God, but present themselves in such a way that it seems like a good thing.

I recently came across one such inspirational post that said “If you chase after God like you chase after love, He will send you a soul mate you won’t have to chase after.” Doesn’t that sound pretty and hopeful?

However, it’s a terrible thing to be telling the single Christians in your life, for a whole host of reasons. Let's take a look at why.

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5 Powerful Worship Songs to Keep You on Pace
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5 Powerful Worship Songs to Keep You on Pace

September 12, 2021

When I was first learning to run, I’d do one mile every day, and I’d always listen to the song “Mr. Blue Sky.” It’s not my favorite song, but it has a great beat that helped me to stay on pace while running. When I hit half a mile, I knew where in the song I should be. When the song ended, I knew I should be turning a particular street corner. At first, I needed the song to help me finish the run. But after a few weeks, my legs and lungs knew what to do on their own.

The Bible sometimes describes our Christian journey as a long-distance race. It takes dedication and practice. It’s often hard work, but the reward is beyond any earthly prize. But sometimes, when we are running this race, we can get off of our desired pace. Stresses from work or family obligations, unexpected disasters or obstacles, even just boring seasons of life can get us distracted and pull us down.

The best remedy for this is time in Scripture or prayer, or community with other believers. But God has also gifted us with music. There are so many beautiful Christian songs out there, many that pull their lyrics directly from the pages of Scripture, to remind us of how loved we are and get us back on track. Other songs may just preach the gospel into our weary hearts, or praise God for his power and majesty. Some songs may give us a loving smack and remind us that we have been embracing a sinful behavior, and we need to repent and return to God.

Regardless of what you are feeling or what you are in need of, I pray that these five songs will encourage you and keep you “on pace.” Listen to the lyrics and write down a lyric that stands out to you, or one of the verses I’ve included. May they remind you of why we run this Christian race.

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Extroverts: Here Are 3 Ways You Can Challenge Yourselves
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Extroverts: Here Are 3 Ways You Can Challenge Yourselves

September 2, 2021

As an introvert, I love my extroverted friends and can see so many ways that their personalities, as an opposite of mine, give them unique strengths to engage with others for Christ. My extroverted friends are usually more comfortable striking up a conversation with someone new or shy, getting the conversation in a Bible study flowing, and leading different groups and ministries within the church.

After all, 1 Corinthians 12:12 reminds us that we are all separate parts of the same body; we all have different skills, talents and passions that we can use to grow the Body of Christ. If we were all the same, the Church wouldn’t have the same strength, and wouldn’t be as effective at reaching out to the world.

All that being said, as an introvert myself, it seems like every week there’s a new article going around about how introverts can challenge ourselves to be more social, more outgoing, more confidant. But there are far fewer resources encouraging extroverts.

We all have our strengths, both introverts and extroverts, and we both have our weaknesses. Sometimes, we need to challenge ourselves to lean into those weaknesses, to find ways to overcome or embrace them. So, my extroverted brothers and sisters, here are three ways that you can challenge yourselves in your faith journey, and grow to embrace the silence and solitude.

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5 Prayers for When the News Cycle Is Overwhelming
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5 Prayers for When the News Cycle Is Overwhelming

August 18, 2021

How you start your morning can set the mood for your entire day. An unfortunate number of times, my day starts with me browsing Twitter. I like to be aware of what’s going on in the world, but all too often, I’m hit with a wave of anger, yelling and vitriol, all while still rubbing the sleep out of my eyes.

Other days, we may open our phones or our newspapers and see heartbreaking tragedies. The current events in Afghanistan and Haiti can make us feel incredible sorrow, fear and helplessness. Even local events, like the constant changes regarding COVID-19 precautions and rising case numbers, can plant worry and fear in our hearts.

It’s good to be informed and to know what’s going on in the world. Like Esther, we were put here on earth “for such a time as this” (Esther 4:14). Burying our heads in the sand and never watching the news would be no good either, but what do we do when it starts to get to us?

The other morning as I browsed social media and clicked through some posts about current events, I walked away so angry. Even after I closed the app and started my day, I was still seething. I noticed that other, completely unrelated issues kept popping up in my mind and fueling this anger. I had to pause my morning and ask that God would give me a reset. “Give me peace God, and help me to choose joy today,” I asked.

And He did! It takes a level of discipline and awareness to shut down those negative thoughts, but when we ask God for peace, He is always willing to give it.

We can always ask Him for a reset. We can surrender our fears to Him. We can ask that he would cool the fiery anger in our hearts and help us to love those around us. We can pray for peace in the midst of disaster. We can pray that in the midst of the chaos, He would give us joy and help us to share that peace with others who are hurting.

When the news and current events start to feel overwhelming, here are five prayers to help you reset.

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Should Christians Care about Protecting the Environment?
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Should Christians Care about Protecting the Environment?

August 12, 2021

I love being outside. The fresh air and blue sky provide a welcome break from the screens that seem to dominate our lives nowadays, and just being outside to watch and listen is such a joy for my soul.

It’s easy to see signs of God’s handiwork when you look at nature. Gazing out at the ocean and contemplating its enormity reminds us that God holds the oceans in the palm of his hand, and has cast our sins as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12). Hiking in the mountains reminds us of his majesty, and puts our carefully crafted bodies to work. Even sitting on my porch watching the birds and squirrels reminds me that our God cares about the smallest creatures in creation.

He is a God of physics, crafting gravity and the basics of engineering to keep my second-story balcony upright. He is a God of biology, who orchestrated every leaf and root of my tomato plant to produce fruit. He is a God of genetics, who gifted man with the ability to cross-pollinate plants to create beautifully colored flowers. God’s fingerprints are seen all across creation.

But the effects of sin are also clearly seen in our world – especially in nature. Unnatural heat withers the flowers and grass, turning it brown and dead. Our selfishness and carelessness fills the oceans with garbage, suffocating the animals there. Storms and wildfires tear through towns and landscapes, leaving a path of destruction.

These effects of sin on our world are not something we can fight. When man battles nature, nature will always win. But God did give us a duty when he put mankind on this earth – to rule over the land and care for it.

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What Do We Get out of Scripture Memorization?

What Do We Get out of Scripture Memorization?

July 3, 2021

In college one year I took a history class that focused entirely on Stalinist Russia. (It was not the most uplifting class.) But one of our assignments was to read a biography of a woman who was arrested and put in various prisons and communist work camps. One of the things she did to keep her spirits up, and to encourage her fellow prisoners, was to recite poetry from memory.

My professor asked us what we would recite if we ever found ourselves in a similar situation. Some people said song lyrics, some said favorite stories from movies or books, and some did say they would recite Scripture. But my professor’s question to all of us – especially those who said the Bible – was how much would we actually be able to remember?

Everyone has a favorite song or two, and every Christian has a favorite Bible verse. But how much of the Word do you actually have memorized? Lord forbid any of us should find ourselves in a situation like the woman in my class discussion. But even in everyday life, we remember that “all Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16-17).

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Does Your Life Bear Fruit of the Spirit, or Fruit of the World?
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Does Your Life Bear Fruit of the Spirit, or Fruit of the World?

June 28, 2021

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful” (John 15:1-2).

The phrase “bear fruit” is one of those phrases that we often throw around in Christian circles. But what do we really mean when we say this? And what does it look like for our lives to be fruitful? As it happens, all of us will spend our lives bearing some sort of “fruit,” but the question is whether that fruit will reflect the world’s standards, or Christ’s.

When a person gives their life over to Christ, the Holy Spirit begins to dwell in that person’s heart. What happens in this situation is supernatural and miraculous – it isn’t just a happy personal decision the person has made. Becoming a Christian isn’t like making a New Year’s resolution, where you plan to do better. Instead, you have the Holy Spirit working in you and sanctifying you to be more like Christ every day. We call this sanctification, and part of that will likely come with some lifestyle changes as the person starts to act and pursue the things of Christ, instead of the things of the world.

When we see these changes in behavior and character, in ourselves or others, we call this “bearing good fruit.”

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