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Denise Kohlmeyer

denise kohlmeyer crosswalk authorDenise is a former newspaper reporter and current freelance writer. She has been published in numerous online and print publications. She is also a former Women's Bible Study teacher. Denise's passion is to use her writing to bless, encourage, and inform others. She lives outside of Chicago with her husband and two children (another has grown and flown). You can find Denise at denisekohlmeyer.com.

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6 Biblical Truths for Emotional Healing and Wholeness

6 Biblical Truths for Emotional Healing and Wholeness

August 5, 2026

Many of us carry emotional wounds in our bodies, minds, and spirits like shrapnel after a battle. Without treatment and healing, those wounds fester, causing continual pain and eventually producing emotional gangrene that slowly kills the spirit and weakens one physically, mentally, and spiritually.

Where did this pain come from? For some, it comes from growing up in a dysfunctional family that manifested itself in some form of physical, mental, or emotional abuse. For others, it comes from the church, which, sadly, can also be dysfunctional. Members may have been abused by a priest, pastor, or layperson, such as a Sunday School teacher, and their belief system has been shaken to the core, and they seriously question if there even is a God who could allow that to happen. Still, for others, their emotional wounding comes from spousal abuse or abandonment, a bitter betrayal by a family member, friend, or co-worker. There are unlimited ways in which we become emotionally wounded.

For many, they learn to “live with the pain” and find ways to cope with it: self-medicating, perfectionism, denial, suppression, keeping so busy that they don’t have time to deal with it. 

They don’t or won’t seek relief. Why? They fear facing it, fearing the onslaught of overwhelming emotions it will produce, or shame and guilt keep them from getting the help and healing they need. They may be too embarrassed or prideful to ask for help, or don’t know where to turn for it.

Can we ever be completely healed and whole this side of eternity? While we were created in holiness and wholeness in the beginning—Adam being “the perfect model or expression of health…before the Fall, a balanced, harmonious, human organism designed for immortality,” wrote John Wesley—sin took that away from us, and we understand that wholeness is not entirely possible. Wesley observed, “Since the Fall, the wholeness to be realized is wholeness within the limits of mortality.”

Sin brought brokenness to the body, the mind, and the soul. Once we understand that concept theologically and practically, we can arrive at some semblance of peace with our pain and even learn how to live in that brokenness with grace.

Complete healing and wholeness won’t be realized until we inhabit our glorified bodies in heaven (Philippians 3:21), when we will experience a state of perfect wholeness. Until then, we can still experience some semblance of healing and wholeness. Here’s how.

Photo Credit: © Pexels/Leah Kelley

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24 Days of Advent: Scripture, Worship, and Prayers
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24 Days of Advent: Scripture, Worship, and Prayers

October 31, 2025

Advent is a cherished season of reflection and hope for Christians worldwide, marked by the four weeks leading up to Christmas. Rooted in the anticipation of Jesus Christ's arrival, Advent invites believers to meditate on the mystery of God coming in the flesh. While some observe formal traditions, such as special services, many use this time for informal prayer, praise, and reflection. This season also renews our hope for the Second Advent, when Jesus will return victoriously to establish a new heaven and earth, encouraging us to persevere with the same hope-filled anticipation the Israelites had as they awaited the First Advent.

At Crosswalk, we aim to nurture your hope during Advent by offering a guide with weekly Scriptures tied to each candle: hope, peace, joy, and love. Alongside these Scriptures, you’ll find suggested songs to sing or listen to and prayers to close each day.

Download the full guide below to fill your heart this Advent with the profound hope, peace, joy, and love that only Jesus Christ can bring!

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24 Days of Scripture, Worship, and Prayers to Lead Us Through Advent
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24 Days of Scripture, Worship, and Prayers to Lead Us Through Advent

November 25, 2024

Advent is a cherished season of reflection and hope for Christians worldwide, marked by the four weeks leading up to Christmas. Rooted in the anticipation of Jesus Christ's arrival, Advent invites believers to meditate on the mystery of God coming in the flesh. While some observe formal traditions, such as special services, many use this time for informal prayer, praise, and reflection. This season also renews our hope for the Second Advent, when Jesus will return victoriously to establish a new heaven and earth, encouraging us to persevere with the same hope-filled anticipation the Israelites had as they awaited the First Advent.

At Crosswalk, we aim to nurture your hope during Advent by offering a guide with weekly Scriptures tied to each candle: hope, peace, joy, and love. Alongside these Scriptures, you’ll find suggested songs to sing or listen to and prayers to close each day.

Download the full guide below to fill your heart this Advent with the profound hope, peace, joy, and love that only Jesus Christ can bring!

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