Some of us have had encounters with people that almost mark our life as before/after. That’s certainly true for those who have encountered Jesus, too.
In the Bible there are, of course, the disciples who spent a ton of time with Jesus. They witnessed many private moments. But the gospels also spotlight a few deeply personal encounters that Jesus had with people outside His inner circle. These were conversations that changed everything for them.
Let’s look at six of those encounters today.
1. Nicodemus – You Must Begin Again
John 3; John 7; John 19
Nicodemus is such an interesting story to track. He doesn’t just have one encounter with Jesus; it seems that he had multiple encounters.
Nicodemus had quite a bit going for him, religiously speaking. He was a Pharisee and had a seat on the Sanhedrin. His reputation was a teacher of Israel. Yet he was unsettled by Jesus. There was something about this man from Nazareth that Nicodemus just couldn’t shake. So, he came by night, possibly to avoid being seen, and began a conversation with Jesus.
Jesus didn’t waste time. He didn’t respond to Nicodemus’ flattery, as if they were just two guys interested in religion. He told Nicodemus something that absolutely shattered his religious categories:
“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3).
Nicodemus was confused. How could someone be “born again”? What does he even mean by this? According to Nicodemus’ worldview, he likely would have thought he was doing quite well in his relationship with God. He was devout, he was teaching others, he was a spiritual authority. And yet Jesus told him that he had to be born again to see the kingdom of God. Spiritual life isn’t earned, inherited, or achieved. It can only be received through this new birth.
Nicodemus, likely scratching his head, faded into the background for awhile after that conversation. But he shows up again in John 7, defending Jesus among his peers. And later we see Nicodemus bringing spices to prepare Jesus’ body for burial. It’s quite likely that he became a disciple — that he was born again.
Nicodemus learned a valuable lesson from Jesus; namely, that religious knowledge can’t replace spiritual rebirth. Jesus’ words changed how Nicodemus viewed himself and his standing with God. There is a lesson in this for us as well. Don’t be afraid of humble inquiry. That can often lead to slow, but real, transformation.
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