2 Samuel 13:11

11 But when she brought them near him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister. ”

2 Samuel 13:11 Meaning and Commentary

2 Samuel 13:11

And when she had brought [them] unto him to eat
Not only into the chamber, but to the side of the bed or couch where he had laid himself, or sat, in a proper position to answer his purpose:

he took hold of her;
by the arm, or threw his hands about her:

and said unto her, come, lie with me, my sister;
one would think the relation he observes she stood in to him would have checked him from making so vile a motion.

2 Samuel 13:11 In-Context

9 And she took the pan and emptied it out before him, but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, “Send out everyone from me. ” So everyone went out from him.

10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the chamber, that I may eat from your hand. ” And Tamar took the cakes she had made and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.

11 But when she brought them near him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister. ”

12 She answered him, “No, my brother, do not violate me, for such a thing is not done in Israel; do not do this outrageous thing.

13 As for me, where could I carry my shame? And as for you, you would be as one of the outrageous fools in Israel. Now therefore, please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you. ”