When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding
 To a wedding dinner, or to any other; such an one as the present entertainment was, which was not a marriage feast, for they might not marry on the sabbath day; (See Gill on John 2:1) but a common sabbath meal: 
 sit not down in the highest room:
 in the chief place at table, as soon as come in: 
 lest a more honourable man;
 for age, office, dignity, wisdom, learning, or riches: 
 than thou be bidden of him:
 the master of the feast; and who may not yet be come, and for whom the chief place may be designed, and will better suit him.