Proverbs 6:20-35

20 1My son, observe the commandment of your father And do not forsake the teaching of your mother;
21 2Bind them continually on your heart; Tie them around your neck.
22 When you 3walk about, they will guide you; When you sleep, they will watch over you; And when you awake, they will talk to you.
23 For 4the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light; And reproofs for discipline are the way of life
24 To 5keep you from the evil woman, From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.
25 6Do not desire her beauty in your heart, Nor let her capture you with her 7eyelids.
26 For 8on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread, And an adulteress * 9hunts for the precious life.
27 Can a man take fire in his bosom And his clothes not be burned?
28 Or can a man walk on hot coals And his feet not be scorched?
29 So is the one who 10goes in to his neighbor's wife; Whoever touches her 11will not go unpunished.
30 Men do not despise a thief if he steals To 12satisfy himself when he is hungry;
31 But when he is found, he must 13repay sevenfold; He must give all the substance of his house.
32 The one who commits adultery with a woman is 14lacking sense; He who would 15destroy himself does it.
33 Wounds and disgrace he will find, And his reproach will not be blotted out.
34 For 16jealousy enrages a man, And he will not spare in the 17day of vengeance.
35 He will not accept * any ransom, Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.

Proverbs 6:20-35 Meaning and Commentary

INTRODUCTION TO PROVERBS 6

In this chapter the wise man dissuades from rash suretyship; exposes the sin of idleness; describes a wicked man; makes mention of seven things hateful to God; exhorts to attend to parental instructions and precepts, and cautions against adultery. Suretyship is described, Pr 6:1; and represented as a snare and a net, in which men are taken, Pr 6:2; and advice is given what to do in such a case, for safety in it, and deliverance from it, Pr 6:3-5; The sin of slothfulness is exposed, by observing the industry of the ant, Pr 6:6-8; by expostulating with the sluggard for his continuance in sloth, and by mimicking him, Pr 6:9,10; and by the poverty it brings upon him, Pr 6:11. Then a naughty wicked man is described, by his mouth, eyes, feet, fingers, and heart, whose ruin is sudden and inevitable, Pr 6:11-15. The seven things hateful to God are particularly named, Pr 6:16-19. And next the exhortation in some preceding chapters is reassumed, to attend to the instructions of parents; which will be found ornamental, pleasant, and useful, Pr 6:20-23. Especially to preserve from the lewd woman cautioned against, Pr 6:24,25; whose company is dissuaded from; on account of the extreme poverty and distress she brings persons to, and even danger of life, Pr 6:26; from the unavoidable ruin such come into, Pr 6:27-29; from the sin of uncleanness being greater than that of theft, Pr 6:30,31; from the folly the adulterer betrays; from the destruction of his soul, and the disgrace he brings on himself, Pr 6:32,33; and from the rage and irreconcilable offence of the husband of the adulteress, Pr 6:34,35.

Cross References 17

  • 1. Ephesians 6:1
  • 2. Proverbs 3:3
  • 3. Proverbs 3:23
  • 4. Psalms 19:8; Psalms 119:105
  • 5. Proverbs 5:3; Proverbs 7:5, 21
  • 6. Matthew 5:28
  • 7. 2 Kings 9:30; Jeremiah 4:30; Ezekiel 23:40
  • 8. Proverbs 5:9, 10; Proverbs 29:3
  • 9. Proverbs 7:23; Ezekiel 13:18
  • 10. Ezekiel 18:6; Ezekiel 33:26
  • 11. Proverbs 16:5
  • 12. Job 38:39
  • 13. Exodus 22:1-4
  • 14. Proverbs 7:7; Proverbs 9:4, 16; Proverbs 10:13, 21; Proverbs 11:12; Proverbs 12:11
  • 15. Proverbs 7:22, 23
  • 16. Proverbs 27:4; Song of Songs 8:6
  • 17. Proverbs 11:4

Footnotes 18

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