Have you ever had a close friend abandon you in your hour of need? Or share a confidence that exposed, embarrassed, or hurt you? Has someone you loved and trusted intentionally hurt you?
Betrayal is one of the more painful experiences we go through as humans. It leaves us feeling sick, emotionally wounded, and likely to think twice before trusting people again. We begin second guessing our friendships, conversations and ability to discern people’s character. We berate ourselves for becoming a victim:
How could I have been so naĂŻve?
What was their motivation?
Should I even allow people to get close to me again?
And God…how in the world am I ever going to move on from this?
And yet, God’s Word to us is clear… we must forgive and move on. Betrayal is such a deep emotional wound that it has the power to wreak havoc in our lives. And more importantly, it can threaten to knock us off track spiritually, if we allow it.
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