"…So that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes." - Ephesians 4:14
Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and control where the intended target is deliberately fed false or misleading information. If a lie is repeated often enough, loud enough, and long enough – soon it is just assumed to be truth, and it causes people to question what they believe to be truth.
There are certainly a great many expressions that come and go with each generation. Even though “gaslighting” was more or less derived from a 1944 film called Gaslight, the expression didn’t really come to common usage until 2010 or a bit later. The story involves a man who uses tactics—including dimming the gas lights—to convince his new wife she is suffering mental issues to justify his efforts to keep her isolated and then search for her dead aunt’s extensive jewelry collection.
Gaslighting can certainly be a serious and abusive issue. The “gas lighter” tends to be controlling and narcissistic to their own ends. The victim quite often simply buys into what they are being manipulated to believe – about themselves or about their lives.
(Please note – if you believe you are being “gaslighted” in an abusive manner, please seek immediate counseling and reach out to godly friends.)
Of course, words do migrate. A word's connotation might be a bit different as years pass and usage becomes more widespread. Such is the case with “gaslighting.” Originally, the “gas lighter's” intent was clearly abusive and nefarious. Today, it seems to be used more to discredit someone’s belief system—to construct a system of lies that makes one question what they believe to be truths. Deliberate deceit is used to manipulate others into questioning their own understanding of what they thought they knew.
Needless to say, a significant amount of gaslighting occurs politically – on both sides of the political aisle. Campaigns and campaign ads can say pretty much anything they want as they throw accusations back and forth – and if the ad or the statements are repeated enough, the truth gets buried.
Gaslighting is also a common technique employed by cult leaders to manipulate and control members. These leaders present altered versions of events, history, or teachings, causing members to question what they thought they knew. They distort reality to their own advantage to gain fidelity and allegiance.
But…gaslighting also has a significant impact on Christianity, our faith, and the gospel message.
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