And I will betroth thee unto me for ever
Which is taking them into a marriage relation with himself; and
is to be understood not of the whole body of God's elect, who
were secretly betrothed to in the everlasting covenant from
eternity; for is respects what is yet to come; but of the people
the Jews, when converted in the latter day, when will be the
marriage of the Lamb with them, and with the fullness of the
Gentiles then brought in; of which see (
Revelation 19:7-9 ) , who will then return to their first
husband; and though the Jews have been divorced, they will be
received again, and be afresh betrothed; a new covenant or
contract will be made with them, and which shall last for ever, (
Jeremiah
31:31 Jeremiah
31:32 ) and this may be applied to every particular soul at
conversion, which is the day of their open espousals to Christ;
and they are visibly brought into a marriage relation with him,
than which nothing is more near; they become flesh of his flesh,
bone of his bone, yea, one spirit with him, and are indulged with
near communion with him; and hence is that sympathy he has with
them in all their afflictions, temptations, and exercises, and
takes that as done to him which is done to them, whether good or
ill; hence all their debts or sins become his, and he satisfies
for them, and his righteousness becomes theirs: this is a very
endearing relation; there is a mutual delight and complacency
they take in each other; and a most able one it is; hence they
are called by his name, Christians, and partake of his honour; he
is King, and they queen; and a very beneficial relation it is,
for all that Christ is, and has, are theirs; and a most
marvellous and wondrous thing it is that he should betroth them
to himself, when he is the Son of the living God, himself the
true God, God over all blessed for ever, the Maker and Governor
of the world, and heir of all things; and though they in their
secret betrothment were considered as sinless creatures, yet in
their open espousals at conversion are fallen sinners, in a very
low estate indeed; under sentence of condemnation and death;
devoid of the image of God; depraved, polluted, and guilty
creatures; in deep debt, and extreme poverty; it is as if a
prince, heir apparent to the throne, should take a convict or
condemned malefactor out of her cell, or a common strumpet out of
the stews, or a bankrupt and beggar from the dunghill, and marry
her: and this relation will continue "for ever": the marriage
covenant or contract is an everlasting one; the bond of union,
which is everlasting and unchangeable love, is indissoluble;
death cannot take place in either party; both shall live forever;
and this is a strong proof of the final perseverance of the
saints. Yea, I will betroth thee unto me in
righteousness;
either in truth, in sincerity, heartily, and without any
hypocrisy or dissimulation; or consistent with righteousness,
with his love of righteousness and holiness, and hatred of sin:
or rather in his own justifying righteousness; not in their own
righteousness, which is as rags; for though he finds them in such
rags, he strips them of them, and puts on the wedding garment,
the robe of his own righteousness, and garment of salvation; when
they become as a bride, adorned with ornaments, and so made ready
for the nuptials, and in this he betroths them; see ( Isaiah 61:10
) ( Matthew
22:12 ) ( Revelation
19:7 Revelation
19:8 ) : and in judgment:
in sanctification, according to some, the work being now begun by
the Spirit of God, as a spirit of judgment; or in a judicious
way, not rashly and precipitantly, but with mature deliberation,
and of choice arising from judgment; or rather absolving them
from the sentence of condemnation and death by his righteousness,
and protecting and defending them from their enemies, for the
sake of which, and other things, he takes them into this
relation; and in lovingkindness, and in
mercies:
denoting both the love, which is the spring and source of this
relation, and not any merits of theirs; and the kind and tender
manner in which he betroths them; as well as the numerous favours
he bestows upon them; as pardon of sin; justification of life;
spiritual peace; supplies of all grace, and eternal life; all the
effects of free grace, unmerited love, and sovereign mercy.