Ephesians 6:4

4 Fathers,^[a] do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

Ephesians 6:4 in Other Translations

4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.

4 Fathers, don't exasperate your children by coming down hard on them. Take them by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master.

4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but nurture them in the chastening and admonition of the Lord.

4 Fathers, don't make your children bitter about life. Instead, bring them up in Christian discipline and instruction.

4 And fathers, don't stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

4 Fathers, don't make your children angry. Instead, train them and teach them the ways of the Lord as you raise them.

Ephesians 6:4 Meaning and Commentary

Ephesians 6:4

And ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath
Neither by words; by unjust and, unreasonable commands; by contumelious and reproachful language; by frequent and public chidings, and by indiscreet and passionate expressions: nor by deeds; preferring one to another; by denying them the necessaries of life; by not allowing them proper recreation; by severe and cruel blows, and inhuman usage; by not giving them suitable education; by an improper disposal of them in marriage; and by profusely spending their estates, and leaving nothing to them: not but that parents may, and ought to correct and rebuke their children; nor are they accountable to them for their conduct; yet they should take care not to provoke them to wrath, because this alienates their minds from them, and renders their instructions and corrections useless, and puts them upon sinful practices; wrath lets in Satan, and leads to sin against God; and indeed it is difficult in the best of men to be angry and not sin; see ( Colossians 3:21 ) . Fathers are particularly mentioned, they being the heads of families, and are apt to be too severe, as mothers too indulgent.

But bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord;
instructing them in the knowledge of divine things, setting them good examples, taking care to prevent their falling into bad company, praying with them, and for them, bringing them into the house of God, under the means of grace, to attend public worship; all which, under a divine blessing, may be very useful to them; the example of Abraham is worthy of imitation, ( Genesis 18:19 ) , and the advice of the wise man deserves attention, ( Proverbs 22:6 ) .

Ephesians 6:4 In-Context

2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—

3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”

4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

5 Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ.

6 Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart.

Cross References

• 1. Colossians 3:21
• 2. Genesis 18:19; Deuteronomy 6:7; Proverbs 13:24; Proverbs 22:6

Footnotes

• [a]. Or "Parents"