Proverbs 9:8

8 So don't waste your time on a scoffer; all you'll get for your pains is abuse. But if you correct those who care about life, that's different - they'll love you for it!

Proverbs 9:8 Meaning and Commentary

Proverbs 9:8

Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee
For wicked men are apt to hate those that publicly rebuke them, ( Amos 5:10 ) . Hence minister's of the word are of all men most hated; though this also should be bore with, could it be thought, or there was any reason to believe, that the reproof would be of any service. The scorner here, and in the preceding verses, may not only design profane sinners, sensualists, and atheists, that despise all religion, and scoff at all that is good; but also proud scornful Pharisees, such who derided Christ himself, and trusted in themselves, and despised others, Christ and his apostles, and their ministrations, ( Luke 16:14 ) ( 18:9 ) ; and such, as Christ came not to call them himself, so he bid his disciples let them alone, ( Matthew 9:13 ) ( 15:14 ) ; rebuke a wise [man], and he will love thee;
as David did Nathan; and who was determined to take kindly the reproof of any righteous man, ( Psalms 141:5 ) . Such who are spiritually wise will be thankful for the reproof of Gospel ministers, and even of private Christians, and will love and esteem them for their faithfulness and uprightness, and for the good which they themselves receive hereby.

Proverbs 9:8 In-Context

6 Leave your impoverished confusion and live! Walk up the street to a life with meaning."
7 If you reason with an arrogant cynic, you'll get slapped in the face; confront bad behavior and get a kick in the shins.
8 So don't waste your time on a scoffer; all you'll get for your pains is abuse. But if you correct those who care about life, that's different - they'll love you for it!
9 Save your breath for the wise - they'll be wiser for it; tell good people what you know - they'll profit from it.
10 Skilled living gets its start in the Fear-of-God, insight into life from knowing a Holy God.
Published by permission. Originally published by NavPress in English as THE MESSAGE: The Bible in Contemporary Language copyright 2002 by Eugene Peterson. All rights reserved.