Sirach 22:19-26

Preserving friendship

19 Whoever pricks an eye will make tears flow, and whoever pricks a heart reveals its feelings.
20 Whoever throws a stone at birds scares them off, and whoever insults a friend breaks up a friendship.
21 If you draw a sword on a friend, don't despair, because there can be a way back.
22 If you speak harshly to a friend, don't be concerned, because there can be reconciliation. But in the case of reproach, arrogance, the revealing of a secret, or a treacherous blow, any friend will flee.
23 Gain your neighbors' trust while they are poor, so that when they are prosperous, you will be filled along with them. In a time of distress remain with them so that when they inherit, you will be a joint heir.
24 Before there's a fire, a furnace has vapor and smoke; so before bloodshed there are insults.
25 I won't be ashamed to shelter friends, and I won't hide from them.
26 And if something bad happens to me because of them, everyone who hears of it will be on guard against them.

Footnotes 1

  • [a]. LXXb adds One shouldn’t always despise appearances, nor are the rich admirable when they have no sense.
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