In the “Flo and Friends” comic, a younger woman is talking to an older man called Mr. O. She asks, “Do you ever hold grudges, Mr. O?” He replies, “Absolutely Not! Never!” The young woman continues, “Yeah, I guess life’s too short, huh?” Mr. O replies, “Naw. I just can’t remember who’s wronged me long enough to hold one.” Whatever our method, or excuse, it is an honorable thing to release a grudge.